This is the reality Mr.Boy; you've been perceiving it wrong all the time.

Acclaimed to be bold, a male friend of mine wrote this line somewhere. It said “If real men don’t rape,real women don’t expose’’. I got numb thinking that, how shameful this line was to be written by a boy who is living in 21st  century. Not only it contradicted the relationship of exposure and molestation,it pumped uncountable questions in my veins, it boiled my female blood and pinched my humanism.Did he mean that a girl wherever found with a part of her body exposed should be raped? Did he mean that a naked woman is not a woman but a thing which should be molested wherever it’s seen? Did he mean that he’ll rape me one day if he sees a part of me? It is insane to feel righteous of having a command over a naked female body or to relate any exposure with the series of rapes continuing today, ignoring the fact that not only those who expose and not only those who hide but, every one in ten who bear double X chromosomes is being raped. Why fake this? For those who say girls get raped only because they expose, why don’t you think about a5 year old girl child getting raped every day everywhere who does not even know what being raped is? Why don’t you think about a woman wearing burka from her head to toe who even fears meeting unknown eyes getting raped every day? Does that 5 year old body seems so inviting to you? Do you even see any skin through that burka that’ll make one forget every sanity and jump over her? You walk everywhere bare chested and you’re a real man, she walks in the same way with at least some more clothes than you, and she’s not a real woman? Justice? No!

While boasting about their superiority and dominance over female race, males are forgetting that even linguistically, they are within her. The word male is itself a part of the word feMALE, he lies inside sHE, man lies inside woMAN,prince lies inside PRINCEss, heir lies inside HEIRess and so on. Not only this but, biologically too, from birth He exists in her. His sperm lies into her ovum; the ‘’he’’ baby cuddles into her ovary;  he nourishes himself with her blood;  he comes being indifferent with her physically as well as mentally;  he feeds himself her milk and he grows bigger sucking every nutrient out of her. But then he grows up and he sees the same breast of a girl somewhere peeping out of her cloth, and suddenly he feels like raping her? And even if a female walks nude in front of a male, with which right does he think that he is free to rape her? He came out from her womb, he breastfed himself with the same chest mountains and he suddenly boosts up and rapes her because she’s exposing the same things to him.Which justice is this?

Why does a male act as if those parts were never in his touch before? Not fair I say.

Once while visiting a jail, I happened to meet a rape accused who was just shut in for a rape case. It but came as a shock that, when asked why he did so, without any guilt of being so inhumane, he told with a pride that, ‘Ghar ma kukhura kaatera ta jalle Pani Khancha tara simkukhura ko sikaar garnu jasto majjaa tesma khoi? Ma ta tei mathi mard hoon.’ [Everyone eats chicken at home but where’s the fun that equates the adventure of hunting wild chicken in the trees? Even more, I am a man]. Shame on human race that being a mere male can make someone feel so righteous to play every foul against humanity. Whom to blame?

Every male is not a hu/man and they’re proving it every day, sometimes by harassing her in the open crowd, sometimes by raping her in the broad daylight, raping her even with candles and rods, and do you even know how do they rock themselves back and forth in a moving bus?Everyone’s too busy blaming females for exposing their body but no one seems to acknowledge the real reason behind these sexual crimes. People are often found saying that sexual restrictions cause sexual crimes because we always want to see what’s hidden rather that what’s always visible. But, making that an only excuse, many other reasons make much sense to motivate these forceful attacks. In the name of patriotism, in the name of male-hood (not manhood), in the name of bravery, in the name of adventure, in the name of proving their distaste on easy meat, don’t you think that males are forgetting to be real man? Don’t you think that they’re mistaken with the meaning of being real? Don’t you think there are some limitations that one should remain within being a human than making excuses afterwards? Why forget that a real man is not the one who just does not rape, is not the one who just does not cry but the one, who does not fake his own vision by pretending not to have seen anything wrong with in and around him. A real hu/man is he who just does not bang his

chest for being a mere male but he who respects every essence of another human body and the one is he who never forgets that he’d once lived onto the same female blood when he even had no heart of his own.

There’s nothing in being a macho man but there’s a whole kind in being a human. Don’t you think so?